Today I want to share a word about keeping up with the Joneses as I comment on Judges 21:25 and 1 Samuel 8.
As we began our study of the kings of Israel and Judah we found Israel in the Land of Canaan, possessing their inheritance, albeit incompletely. Living in their midst were other nations, and the Israelites began to see “how the other half lived,” and they got jealous of them.
In our culture, we call what Israel began to do “keeping up with the Joneses.” You know what that’s like. Your neighbor buys a new car, and you feel the need to buy a Sports Utility Vehicle. Your neighbor digs a swimming pool, therefore you install a hot tub. Your neighbor sends their kids to play soccer, so you send yours to play softball.
I once knew a wife who was so caught up in this way of life that when her husband had a heart attack and a triple by-pass, she also had a heart attack and a quadruple by-pass before he was out of the Intensive Care Unit. They were both in the same hospital at the same time for the same surgery. She actually had more by-passes performed on her than he did!
Israel saw that the people in the land had something they didn’t, and they wanted it. Let’s see the consequences of this today as we read God’s Word.
Let’s begin by reading Judges 21:25,
In those days there was no king in Israel; everyone did whatever seemed right to him.
Israel Lost Its Purpose:
Israel was founded, literally, with a mission from God. They were to be a blessing to the world. They were to be the way of salvation for the world. They were to be the tool of God to overcome the devastation that Satan had wreaked upon the world.
Every tool has a purpose, but if it used wrongly it can break, hurt someone, or damage the material it is used on. A flat bladed screwdriver can be used as a chisel, but it shouldn’t be. Likewise, pliers can be used to tighten or loosen a bolt, but a socket wrench does the job more effectively. And, a socket wrench can be used as an impromptu hammer, but it also can break when it’s used that way. Ask me how I know!
Sadly, Israel lost sight of their mission. They had received their inheritance. They no longer had to wander the wilderness. They were no longer at war, at least temporarily. They became complacent, and they did what they wanted, when they wanted to do it. They became “fat, dumb, and happy.” This is a dangerous and unhealthy condition.
We need to remember, however, that the church also has a mission. We are to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, mind, and might. We are to love our fellow men and women. We are to make disciples of all nations, because we are supposed to be a kingdom of priests, a holy nation.
To avoid making the same mistake as Israel did, the church must remember its purpose and its mission. We must remind ourselves and our children of it constantly, because the saying, “out of sight, out of mind,” too often is a true one!
Israel Lost Its Focus:
Let’s read 1 Samuel 8:1-6,
When Samuel grew old, he appointed his sons as judges over Israel. His firstborn son’s name was Joel and his second was Abijah. They were judges in Beer-sheba. However, his sons did not walk in his ways—they turned toward dishonest profit, took bribes, and perverted justice. So all the elders of Israel gathered together and went to Samuel at Ramah. They said to him, “Look, you are old, and your sons do not walk in your ways. Therefore, appoint a king to judge us the same as all the other nations have.” When they said, “Give us a king to judge us,” Samuel considered their demand wrong, so he prayed to the Lord.
What should have Israel’s focus been? The same focus we should have. Jesus told us in Matthew 6:33, “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you.” In 1 Corinthians 10:31, Paul taught, “So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God.” Both Israel and the church were created to glorify God and both Israel and the church were created to serve God.
If we have this Biblical focus, it will change how we see our lives and the world around us. For example, the noted Baptist author and seminary ethics professor Tony Campolo once commented, “Parents should want their children to be good, not happy.”
When people lose their focus, they lose their way. They begin to wonder what others think of them. They begin to notice what others do, and what they have. They begin to focus on the minors instead of majoring on the vital things of life. Remember, Peter could walk on the water when his focus was on Jesus, but when he got distracted by the wind and waves, he sank.
When Israel lost their focus, trouble happened, and they began to sink. Their leaders became materialistic and corrupt. The first eight chapters of 1 Samuel, records that the children of Samuel, as well as the children of Eli who preceded him, were corrupt, and they used their positions for their own gain. It is often true even today that pastors are not fired for incompetence, but for lack of character. As one Christian leader has noted, for some pastors, their talents and skills grow faster and larger than their maturity and morality do.
Also, as God’s people lost their focus on Him, they begin to follow the ways of the world. According to a survey by George Barna, moral opinions for church members today are not much different than the rest of society
Finally, as God’s people lost their focus on Him, they began to focus on serving themselves, and they failed to serve God. When that happened, so did trouble and tribulation occur. For example, in 1 Samuel 4, not only were the Israelites defeated twice by the Philistines, but they also allowed the Ark of the Covenant to be captured by their enemies who did not know or worship God.
When we focus on the world, and not God, we put ourselves at the brink of disaster, defeat, and disintegration.
Israel Got What They Wanted:
Let’s read 1 Samuel 8:7-18,
But the Lord told him, “Listen to the people and everything they say to you. They have not rejected you; they have rejected me as their king. They are doing the same thing to you that they have done to me, since the day I brought them out of Egypt until this day, abandoning me and worshiping other gods. Listen to them but solemnly warn them and tell them about the customary rights of the king who will reign over them.” Samuel told all the Lord’s words to the people who were asking him for a king. He said, “These are the rights of the king who will reign over you: He will take your sons and put them to his use in his chariots, on his horses, or running in front of his chariots. He can appoint them for his use as commanders of thousands or commanders of fifties, to plow his ground and reap his harvest, or to make his weapons of war and the equipment for his chariots. He can take your daughters to become perfumers, cooks, and bakers. He can take your best fields, vineyards, and olive orchards and give them to his servants. He can take a tenth of your grain and your vineyards and give them to his officials and servants. He can take your male servants, your female servants, your best cattle, and your donkeys and use them for his work. He can take a tenth of your flocks, and you yourselves can become his servants. When that day comes, you will cry out because of the king you’ve chosen for yourselves, but the Lord won’t answer you on that day.”
God warned Israel that they didn’t really want what they asked for. The king would tax them. The king would draft their sons to be soldiers. The king would take their daughters to be his servants. The king would take their freedom from them. As Leonard Nimoy’s character Spock once said in an episode of the original Star Trek television series, “After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.”
God’s warning did not dissuade Israel from what they wanted. Let’s read 1 Samuel 8:19-22,
The people refused to listen to Samuel. “No!” they said. “We must have a king over us. Then we’ll be like all the other nations: our king will judge us, go out before us, and fight our battles.” Samuel listened to all the people’s words and then repeated them to the Lord. “Listen to them,” the Lord told Samuel. “Appoint a king for them.” Then Samuel told the men of Israel, “Each of you, go back to your city.”
In the end, Israel got what they wanted, but this was a bad move on the part of God’s people. The kings of Israel, and (later) Judah, were uniformly bad. A cursory examination of the first three kings will illustrate this point. Saul lost his mind. David was an adulterer and murderer. Solomon took a thousand wives and concubines, including women that the Bible says turned away his heart from God. In the end, Israel suffered tremendously because of this ill-considered and unwise decision.
A corollary of the Spock quote is a common saying, “Be careful what you ask for, because you might get it.” Israel found out the truth of this saying. We must ask ourselves today this question, “Upon what are we focused in our lives and in our families?” Success? Power? Possessions? Leisure? Control? We must be careful what we ask for, because we might get it, and also the consequences that attend it.
Israel Got Replaced:
Israel was to be God’s instrument of His Salvation. Instead, they became just like the people needing to be saved. They lost their mission. They lost their focus. They lost their relationship with God as the King of His people. They were no longer of any use to God in pursuing His mission for them. What Jesus said in Matthew 5:13 describes their situation,
You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt should lose its taste, how can it be made salty? It’s no longer good for anything but to be thrown out and trampled under people’s feet.
Although Israel had abandoned their original mission, God gave them another one. They now served as the pathway for their replacement. Instead of being an agent of salvation, they were destined to be the platform from which that Agent (Jesus) would come. Isaiah 40:3 says that, like John the Baptist, Israel was to be,
A voice of one crying out: “Prepare the way of the Lord in the wilderness; make a straight highway for our God in the desert.”
Even more telling, Israel herself would need to be saved. Instead of being the means of salvation, they, themselves, needed saving. Instead of being part of the solution to sin, they became part of the problem of sin. Paul, in Romans 11:25-27, says.
I don’t want you to be ignorant of this mystery, brothers and sisters, so that you will not be conceited: A partial hardening has come upon Israel until the fullness of the Gentiles has come in. And in this way all Israel will be saved, as it is written, The Deliverer will come from Zion; he will turn godlessness away from Jacob. And this will be my covenant with them when I take away their sins.
Whether we are on board or not, God’s purposes will be achieved. The only question is whether we will get the blessing of being “On Mission With God” or if we are going to need rescuing ourselves.
Conclusion:
A small, weather beaten lifeboat station once stood on a dangerous stretch of coastline where shipwrecks were common. It wasn’t much to look at — just a hut, a few worn boats, and a handful of volunteers who kept watch day and night. They had one purpose: rescue the perishing.
Whenever a ship went down, the crew rushed out into the storm. They saved lives. They pulled half drowned sailors from the waves. The station became famous for its courage.
Over time, people who had been rescued — grateful, successful, influential people — began donating money. The station was remodeled. The rough cots were replaced with comfortable beds. The leaky boats were upgraded. A beautiful lounge was added so members could gather and socialize. Little by little, the focus shifted.
The rescue crew became less interested in braving storms. They preferred staying inside the warm building. They held meetings, planned banquets, and enjoyed fellowship. Eventually, they hired professional crews to do the actual rescue work — though those crews rarely went out because storms were dangerous and rescues were messy.
One day, a massive shipwreck occurred. The hired crew refused to launch. So, a few of the remaining volunteers tried to help, but they were told not to bring wet, cold, injured people into the new building because it would ruin the furniture and disrupt the social events. The rescued were sent elsewhere.
Eventually, the lifeboat station stopped doing rescues altogether. It became a social club with maritime decorations and a plaque on the wall commemorating its heroic past. Meanwhile, shipwrecks continued on the same coastline. People still drowned within sight of the building that had once been their only hope.
Have we lost our purpose? Have we lost our focus? Are we part of the solution for sin, or are we becoming part of the problem? Are we in danger of being replaced by God?
Every blessing,
Dr. Otis Corbitt